Wil de Boer Dekker, Psychologist
Counsellor/ Coach/ Psychotherapist
I was born and raised in The Netherlands. For more than 30 years I traveled, living in different countries, following my husband’s job, and raising my 2 sons. Since 2003 we are living on the beautiful island of Cyprus. In all those years I was (and still am) experiencing different cultures and learning about people’s way of life, how they follow up with the way they are brought up, about the ability they have to change their life’s and how stuck we all can be as we stubborn follow up with just that what we always have been doing.
In my work as a counselor and therapist, I feel very fortunate to guide people in their process to find their own answers and solutions so they can feel better, stronger, and more in balance. It is my belief that we all have our own importance and that we are responsible for the life we live to find happiness and fulfillment. It is my honest experience that people all over the world have no ‘problems’ but are able to encounter every time new ‘opportunities’ and they sometimes simply need to be reminded of their own unlimited potential, using it to find their own unique creative solutions to their life’s challenges.
I feel grateful for being part of the process of all of those who are willing to start their search for their own truth and faithfully developing their talents and skills, longing to empower their lives through understanding and acceptance of self.
I use many different techniques making my sessions tailor-made for everyone who dares to approach life differently. Together we explore the challenges, dust off the talents you have so you may become aware of your creativity and strength. When you start recognizing that only your fear shaped in the past and lived in the now keeps you from your own power, you will understand that becoming conscious of your own thoughts and behavior will let you start changing your life, embracing it, being able to respond powerful, being in control. When we start recognizing that there are no victims in this world as long as we stay students of life and know that we are masters of our mind we become powerful Creators of the reality we live.
Examples of workshops I made: the Identity Code; Breaking patterns; the Secret explained; What to do by Burn Out; The Connection; and The Family affairs.
Workshops I made in cooperation with Prof. A. Droussiotis : The perfect Parent, Methods of Stress reduction, Effective Leadership, Walking the Path of effortless performance.
I am the author of: Pause for thoughts ISBN 9781480210967 / The Guide to your Guru inside ISBN 9781480199859/ From reality into truth ISBN 9781481156004 9, only so far in Dutch)